Graciousness

Graciousness

From Gary Henry’s Wordpoints

Graciousness (April 8)

“Amazing grace! How sweet the sound!” (John Newton).

FEW THINGS IN LIFE ARE FINER THAN THE DAILY DEMONSTRATION OF GRACIOUSNESS. When the things that are done are not only correct from a legal or technical viewpoint but they’re also warmed with the goodness of grace, that’s a beauty that makes us glad we’re alive! A friend COMPASSIONATELY notices that we’re struggling. A coworker KINDLY covers a task for us. A neighbor BEAUTIFULLY remembers our birthday. A child CHARMINGLY says thank you. A spouse TACTFULLY helps us with a weakness. AMAZING GRACE! HOW SWEET THE SOUND!

ATTENTIVENESS AND THOUGHTFULNESS. The most basic element of graciousness is that it pays careful attention to another person. It’s considerate in the literal sense of the term, that is, it CONSIDERS the other person. When we act graciously, we’re saying that we’ve taken thought for someone else and that their needs are important to us.

KINDNESS AND COURTESY. To be gracious, however, we must not only take thought for others; we must do so with a desire to be merciful. The essence of kindness is that it is compassionate; it desires to deal gently with other people, even when they’ve not done their best. And that’s why the help that gracious people offer actually does HELP.

CHARM AND BEAUTY. Good manners are not a waste of time, nor are they finicky or pretentious. To endow our deeds with a bit of charm — and even ELEGANCE once in a while! — is to say to those around us that we think enough of them to act graciously for their sake. The beauty of gracious conduct is one of life’s happiest pleasures.

Many people have the RESOURCES to be gracious but lack the CHARACTER to carry it out. On any given day, most of the opportunities for people to act graciously toward other people are probably lost. So when we encounter that rare person who cares enough to have acquired the qualities of kindness, courtesy, and beauty, we are deeply refreshed by them. Thank goodness for the gracious ones! Like daffodils peeking out from a spring snow, they strike us with hope and happiness. Our days would be dreary indeed if it weren’t for their gift of graciousness.

“Riches may enable us to confer favours, but to confer them with propriety and grace requires a something that riches cannot give” (Charles Caleb Colton).

Gary Henry – WordPoints.com

An Outline of What Is Marriage?

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What Is Marriage? Man and Woman: A Defense by Sherif Girgis, Ryan T. Anderson, and Robert George, is a brief book, but it is weighted with hefty arguments. Its 97 pages of text plus appendix, notes, and index, is an expanded revision of their article, What Is Marriage?, published in the Harvard Journal of Law & Public Policy in winter of 2010. The introduction charts the course of their defense and the chapter titles signal the major points of their argument.

What Is Marriage? Man and Woman: A Defense

Introduction

1. Challenges to Revisionists

2. Comprehensive Union

3. The State and Marriage

4. What’s the Harm?

5. Justice and Equality

6. A Cruel Bargain?

7. Conclusion

Whenever I read a book I usually try to find out something about the authors. I’d previously heard of Robert George as a pro-life champion and founder of the American Principles Project

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Footnote 3 – Explanatory Footnote

Footnote 3 – Explanatory Footnote

When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary to create yet another weblog and thus add to the verbiage already cluttering the blogosphere, exercising the verbal and mental abilities which the Laws of Nature and of Nature’s God have bestowed upon us, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that one should declare the causes which impel him to do such a thing (shamelessly paraphrased from someone much smarter than me).

This personal blog is something I have pondered doing for several years, and finally, “impelled” by wife, daughter and others, have taken the plunge. Will anyone read it? I hope so – but that’s not really the point of this blog.  It’s for me as much as anyone else – my interests, my thoughts and words (and the thoughts and words of others), and my interactions with the thoughts and words of others.

It’s “eclectic” – from the Greek ἐκλεκτικός, which can be defined as “deriving ideas, style, or taste from a broad and diverse range of sources (adjective); or, a person who derives ideas, style, or taste from a broad and diverse range of sources (noun); selecting what appears to be best in various doctrines, methods, or styles; or, composed of elements drawn from a variety of sources, systems, or styles.”

Because I spent the last seven years co-editing a new hymnal – Psalms, Hymns, and Spiritual Songs – much of my consciousness is still oriented in that direction.  I will continue posting my “Hymn For Today” feature which has been a regular aspect of my Facebook page since last June.

But my interests are broader and more diverse (eclectic) than hymnology, extending to history, religion, language, broadcast media, sports, and more: much of the broad range of human endeavor and achievement. I taught history in a state university for a number of years (history of religion, journalism, science and technology, the history and impact of “significant events,” e.g., World War II or the American Civil War, as well as the obligatory “survey” courses) before “declaring victory” and retiring from the field.  History is arguably the broadest of the liberal arts, since one can, after all, write a history of nearly anything.  Additionally, in a brief spurt of insanity during my long and checkered past, I did some news broadcasting (NPR and CBS affiliates).

Partly my “eclecticism” is due to my more-or-less typical baby-boomer career path of eight different jobs in three different “careers.” Some people have said that I just haven’t decided what I want to be when I grow up.  My retort is: “Why grow up? No future in that!”

But the one common interest which binds all these eclectic disciplines together is, for me, religion – and the quest to understand the meaning of it all.  Much of my adult life has been spent working as a minister – sometimes “bi-vocational,” supporting my family by working in the “secular” marketplace; often fully supported by churches.  Much of my work has been with small-to-medium-sized, independent congregations whose stated intent is to be “Christians only” and attempt to follow the teachings of Jesus and his first disciples – those He sent out as apostles to spread and share the gospel of God’s grace.  Thus, this blog has a decidedly Christian orientation.

Some individual blogs will celebrate the joys and hazards of living in suburban Chicago and the diverse (eclectic) advantages of a truly global city – as well as the agonies and ecstasies of following daBears, Bulls, Blackhawks and, of course, the Cubbies (World Champions, 1908).

The format of some of the blog , a series of “Footnotes,” is a nod to my former academic career.  I cite a source in more-or-less standard academic format, and then reproduce a quotation or segment from some eclectic source. Sometimes I may feel a need to comment; sometimes not.   Some of them may be “explanatory” footnotes, like this one.  I stole this format shamelessly a few decades ago from one of my academic mentors who long ago abandoned the practice.  Perhaps I will re-cycle portions of a series of “Footnote” articles I wrote several years ago in the “popular” (non-academic) press.  At this stage it’s probably too late to come up with something else which is new and clever.

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